Sunday, March 8, 2009

Common Relationship Pitfalls:

- Having unrealistic expectations of yourself , the other person or the relationship
- Coming too close too soon , physically or psychologically
- Being overly negative
- Trying to be a saviour
- Trying to change the person
- Needing to always be right
- Enduring strong feelings (anger,sadness,neediness) and then pouring them all out at once
- Expecting the other person to be a mind reader
- Crowding and smothering the other person, expecting him or her to meet all your needs and spend all his or her time with you


Quite true hor?